Faith based mentor to help women in estranged relationships rise in faith, hope, love and purpose. And discover lasting peace.
Helping women with estrangement conquer guilt and shame so they can experience peace, learn how to forgive and set boundaries for healthy relationships.
Estrangement creates a deep sense of loss.
- Whether your estrangement is with a child, sibling, parent or another family member, separation severs your ties to your roots, identity and shared history and creates intense emotional pain.
Research reveals the top 3 causes of estrangement.
- Divorce & Remarriage
- Abuse – Sexual, Physical & Emotional
- Differing Beliefs, Culture & Values
And each of these have their own unique set of issues often resulting in estrangement. Can you relate to one or more of these?
In estrangement, you often feel isolated, ashamed, feeling as though something is wrong with you. Especially if you created the issue that resulted in estrangement. Those emotions are accentuated by negative things others are saying about you. You grapple with feelings of rejection, guilt, shame, anger, and questioning your self-worth. You wonder if God loves you or cares about what you’re going through. You long for peace but it seems elusive. You feel stuck. You know you were created for more, but what?
God desires to use our brokenness to draw us deeper into relationship with him and uses the pain to help us grow personally and spiritually.
Deep inside where no one can see, is a heart that is broken. Filled with disappointment, grief, guilt and shame, you often feel alone with your feelings. You feel guilty as a Christian that you have these feelings. You wonder where God is in the estrangement and feel confused as you struggle with your emotions.
You don’t talk about it because you feel like your family and friends don’t want to hear it, and you don’t want to burden them with it anyway. And, you feel that you should be happy because you are blessed in many other areas. And that creates more guilt.
I have good news for you. I’ve been where you are. For several years I was estranged from my kids and most of my family. It was the most painful time in my life. I felt that if they rejected me, God probably did as well. And I found just the opposite. The pain is where God met me, opened his arms and helped me navigate the estrangement while helping me grow closer to him. Eventually, reconciliation and restoration occurred. And I can help you heal the guilt, shame and negative self-worth and find the peace you long for.
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