Meet Becky Kolb

You feel the sting of rejection and wonder why someone who is supposed to love and care for you could just walk away so easily.

You function well in most situations, but triggers come out of nowhere and threaten to take you down the slippery slope to another pity party you don’t want to attend.

And you are stuck in shame, thinking that you are unique to this problem as most of your friends seem to have loving and respectful families.

You feel it’s just easier to keep silent and endure the pain.

My friend, you are in the right place. I understand your pain and I’ve got you. I’ve felt all those same things and more and I have a news flash for you. You are a rock star and deserve healthy respectful relationships.

You can navigate the painful estrangement to find peace and avoid negative self-talk, judgment, shame and guilt.

I want to hear your story and help you find the peace you seek. And to dispel some of the lies I believed about estrangement and bet you do too.

Are you ready to find that lasting peace and end the cycle that never ends well? You don’t have to worry about shame or guilt or judgment with me. I’ve been there and understand.

I help women who have painful estranged relationships who want...

freedom from guilt and shame.
to rebuild their shattered self-esteem.
to forgive and aren’t sure how.
set healthy boundaries and non-negotiables for rebuilding relationships.

My passion came to fruition when I experienced a series of estrangements in my own life and experienced firsthand what you feel and the difficulties you face with estrangement. I learned many hard lessons and I want to help women like you navigate this silent epidemic that many women refuse to even discuss because of the shame they feel.

Are you ready to consider how this 4-part system can help you rebuild your self-esteem, give freedom from guilt and shame, learn the process of forgiveness and establish healthy boundaries and non-negotiables? Tell me a little about you in the short questionnaire.

Not quite ready to do that, but want to stay in touch? Subscribe to my blog and podcast where you’ll discover new and fresh insights to help you navigate these painful emotions and triggers. Things like how to navigate the holidays and what happens when you forgive but they don’t.

And if you just have questions, contact me here and I’ll be happy to help.

Life coaching is not therapy. It’s focused on today and what you desire for the future. We work together for ways to help you move forward for I believe the answers lie within you. A coach will help you see what you can’t and helps you find those answers. I found that talking with close friends provided support, but they were too emotionally involved and hesitated to tell me what I needed to hear for fear of risking the friendship. Friends are not usually skilled to challenge where needed and help you move to your goal. I will offer insight and different perspectives for you to think about. I may ask hard questions and I’ll offer feedback, but you will decide what will work best for you.

I am passionate about helping women move from where they feel stuck to where they want to be. And as a result, you will find clarity and direction to move forward into your dreams and goals.

Becky lives in the Phoenix Arizona area. She and her husband, John, enjoy traveling internationally and entertaining. Together, they have 5 adult children and 14 grandchildren.