Christian based coaching for women who navigate estrangement with an adult child or next generation family member.
You likely never thought you would be experiencing this kind of emotional pain with a loved one. Your heart is broken. You long for peace. You're in the right place my friend.
Helping women with estrangement conquer guilt and shame so they can experience peace, learn how to forgive and set boundaries for healthy relationships.
Estrangement Changes Everything!
Estrangement hurts. Possibly more than any physical ailment. It may be with an adult child or next generation relationship such as
- Daughter or Son-in-Law
- Grandkids
- Great-grandkids
- Other family members
Separation severs ties to your roots. Your roles are upended.
- Mother
- Mother-in-law
- Grandmother
- Daughter
- Sister
Self-worth, identity and shared history are lost and you feel intense emotional pain. Does this sound familar?
Estrangement often brings grief, guilt, confusion and isolation. You feel distant even from God. You may feel pressure to forgive or reconcile before you understand fully what happened and frankly before you’re spiritually and emotionally ready. I understand and felt similarly.
My personal experience with estrangement coupled with certified life coach training offers an opportunity for you to create a safe space to feel grief, discover clarity around responsibility, establish healthy boundaries and gain a renewed sense of purpose. You want to heal so that you can live grounded, regardless of whether the relationship changes.
Reconciliation Cannot be Forced
Coaching focuses on your wholeness – your heart, your faith, your boundaries and your peace rather than an attempt to manage someone else. Because as hard as you try to control someone else, it just doesn’t work. Together, we’ll focus on what you can control and that is you and your emotions, decisions and relationship with God.
Who This Work is For
Women navigating complex family distance and estrangement who are ready to work on creating their own faith based growth and peace. Who are tired of feeling stuck and unable to move forward. Who desire reconciliation but recognize the work they need to focus on in their own heart first.
My approach is a biblically based WHOLENESS Path – a gentle Christ-centered 7-session coaching journey focused on healing your emotional pain. Learn how to heal, forgive, discover clarity, establish healthy boundaries, manage triggers and prepare for possible reconciliation as you orient your identity back to who Christ says you are.
I tried other strategies – self-help, books, counseling and more and although some of it helped, I was lacking internal peace. Until I discovered a fundamental principle that changed my life. And my passion is helping you find it too.
What Coaching Looks Like
Coaching with me is a one-on-one private session with guided reflection and compassionate support.
What You Can Expect
Clients express that they experience new perspectives, true identity, clearer boundaries, how to finally forgive and let go, renewed faith and freedom to live again. Even amid estrangement. Some have found their passion and purpose once they were able to let go of the bitterness and resentment that estrangement concealed.
You Don't Have to Walk This Estrangement Alone!
Deep inside where no one can see, is a heart that is broken. Filled with disappointment, grief, guilt and shame, you often feel alone with your feelings. You feel guilty that you have these feelings. You wonder where God is in the estrangement and feel confused as you struggle with your emotions.
That’s how I felt. You too? For several years I was estranged from my kids and most of my family. It was the most painful time in my life. I felt that if they rejected me, God probably did as well. And I found just the opposite. The pain is where God met me, opened his arms and helped me navigate estrangement while helping me grow closer to him. Eventually, reconciliation and restoration occurred. And I can help you when you are ready to heal, confront guilt & shame, reclaim your true identity and find the peace you long for.
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