Helping Christian women who are living with the pain of estrangement and relational loss move toward healing, hope & wholeness.
Reconnect with God and release the guilt that's been crushing you so you can finally see yourself as the worthy woman you are, not the failure your estrangement has made you feel.
Peace is attainable - even amid estrangement.
Even if Your Loved One Never Changes, Healing is Possible.
Deep inside where no one can see, is a heart that is broken. Whether it is a child, grandkids or a son or daughter-in-law, disappointment turns into anger and resentment. Filled with disappointment, grief, guilt and shame, you often feel alone with your feelings. Prayers have gone unanswered. You wonder where God is in the estrangement and feel confused as you struggle with your emotions. You wonder who you are without your role as a mom.
That’s how estrangement felt to me. You too? I help women who wake up thinking “my heart is broken. Will I ever feel normal again?” YES! You’re in the right place to grow and find peace in brokenness.
Estrangement upends your role with multiple relationships – as it often affects in-laws and grandkids – and you wonder how you’ll manage.
- Who am I without my role as a Mom?
- When grandchildren disappear from my life.
- Can I feel normal again?
- Will I ever stop obsessing about this estrangement?
- How can I enjoy a meaningful life if reconciliation doesn’t happen?
My friend, you are whole – even if the relationship is never restored! You can build your new normal apart from your roles that have disappeared. Feel alive again, even joyful and peaceful. You have many unanswered questions. That’s normal in estrangement but it doesn’t have to be permanent. I’ll show you how to get unstuck, find the answers you seek and discover peace that is lasting.
Coaching is not therapy. My approach is a biblical 7-session 1:1 personalized relationship where you'll develop a clear path to move you forward to the peace you seek and away from the pain that plagues your heart.
Reconciliation Cannot be Forced – Learn How To Build a Meaningful Life While the Estrangement Continues.
You want reconciliation. So did I. Years passed without contact. What if the relationship never reconciles? Coaching and support with me focuses on your wholeness – your heart, your faith, your boundaries and your peace rather than an attempt to manage someone else. Because as hard as you try to control someone else, it just doesn’t work. When you discover that you can only control your emotions, decisions and healthy relationships including God, life will change for the better. Because you’ll be building a meaningful life beyond estranged relationships.
Here’s How to Start the Process
Estrangement can feel so overwhelming. Where do you start? How do you navigate this? So many emotions and struggles. Start here.
Download “4 Steps to Discover Lasting Peace Amid Estrangement” – Here you’ll find an interactive guide to help you process your emotional pain and find solutions for peace.
Consider What Coaching Looks Like
Coaching with me is a one-on-one private session with compassionate support. It is not therapy. I am not a Licensed Therapist. My strength is empathy, faith, lived wisdom and a steady voice to partner with you as you process estrangement. Let’s have an initial consultation free of charge to see if coaching is right for you.
Shift your Mindset and Find the 4 Steps to Peace
"Becky helped me find peace when reconciliation wasn't possible."
"I stopped living in guilt and discovered life apart from my roles and mom and grandmother."
"Forgiveness was a hard concept for me and through Becky's 4 Steps free guide, I finally understood and have found immense peace."
"I was in therapy, but I missed the Christian component and Becky's coaching fulfilled that for me. She helped me heal from a biblical perspective."
