Christ-centered support for women walking through estrangement.
Find peace, clarity and hope - even when the relationship feels broken through a compassionate path toward healing.
Your heart is broken. Emotions are confusing. You long for peace. You're in the right place my friend.
If you’re walking through estrangement, this free guide originated from my personal journey and contains lessons that helped me survive the hardest days. It’s the story I wish someone had shared with me when my estrangement began.
Estrangement hurts. Possibly more than any physical ailment. It may be with an adult child or next generation relationship such as
- Daughter or Son-in-Law
- Grandkids
- Great-grandkids
- Other family members
Separation severs ties to your roots. Your roles are upended.
- Mother
- Mother-in-law
- Grandmother
- Daughter
- Sister
You never saw it coming. Self-worth, identity and shared history are lost and you feel intense emotional pain. Does this sound familiar?
Estrangement often brings grief, guilt, shame, confusion and isolation. You feel distant even from God. You’re confused about what went wrong and ashamed for how deeply this hurts. You’re questioning why God isn’t answering your prayers and unsure of how to move forward without resentment and bitterness.
I understand as I’ve walked through estrangement with my own kids and family and felt all of these things. And I’ve learned strategies and principles to help you. My personal experience with estrangement coupled with certified life coach training and a strong faith offer an opportunity for you to create a safe space to feel grief, discover clarity around responsibility, establish healthy boundaries and gain a renewed sense of purpose. You want peace so that you can live grounded, regardless of whether the relationship changes.
Reconciliation Cannot be Forced
Coaching with me focuses on your wholeness – your heart, your faith, your boundaries and your peace rather than an attempt to manage someone else. Because as hard as you try to control someone else, it just doesn’t work. Together, we’ll focus on what you can control and that is you and your emotions, decisions and relationship with God.
Who This Work is For
It’s not about fixing family relationships or forcing reconciliation. it’s about helping you:
- Release what was never yours to carry.
- Find steadiness and peace with God in the midst of uncertainty.
- Reclaim peace even if the relationship isn’t reconciled.
I tried other strategies – self-help, books, counseling and more and although some of it helped, I was lacking internal peace. Until I discovered a fundamental principle in estrangement that changed my life. I finally conquered guilt & shame, learned how to handle the grief, anger & resentment and found lasting peace. And my passion is helping you find it too.
What Coaching Looks Like
Coaching with me is a one-on-one private session with guided reflection and compassionate support. It is not therapy. I am not a Licensed Therapist.
What You Can Expect
Clients express that they experience new perspectives, true identity, clearer boundaries, how to finally forgive and let go, a renewed faith and freedom to live again. Even amid estrangement. Some have found their passion and purpose once they were able to let go of the bitterness and resentment that estrangement concealed.
You Don't Have to Walk This Estrangement Alone!
Deep inside where no one can see, is a heart that is broken. Filled with disappointment, grief, guilt and shame, you often feel alone with your feelings. You feel guilty that you have these feelings. You wonder where God is in the estrangement and feel confused as you struggle with your emotions.
That’s how I felt. You too? For several years I was estranged from my kids and most of my family. I struggled with guilt & shame. It was the most painful time in my life. I felt that if they rejected me, God probably did as well. And I found just the opposite. The pain is where God met me, opened his arms and helped me navigate estrangement while helping me grow closer to him. Eventually, reconciliation and restoration occurred. And I can help you when you are ready to heal, confront guilt & shame, reclaim your true identity and find the peace you long for.
Take the first step by getting your free guide to pursue peace. You'll discover how to find peace when reconciliation hasn't occurred, how to begin the process of forgiveness and those things that helped me survive the hardest days. The link is below - grab your free copy.
