I help women navigate estrangement with an adult child or next generation family member.

You likely never thought you would be experiencing this kind of emotional pain with a loved one. And you desire support from someone who's been there. You're in the right place my friend.

Becky Kolb
Estrangement & Relationship Coach
Becky Kolb, Estrangement and Relationship Coach

Helping women with estrangement conquer guilt and shame so they can experience peace, learn how to forgive and set boundaries for healthy relationships.

Becky Kolb
Estrangement and Relationship Coach
Becky Kolb, Estrangement and Relationship Coach

Estrangement Changes Everything!

Estrangement may be with an adult child or next generation relationship such as

  • Daughter or Son-in-Law
  • Grandkids
  • Great-grandkids
  • Other family members

Separation severs ties to your roots. Your roles are upended. 

  • Mother
  • Mother-in-law
  • Grandmother
  • Daughter
  • Sister

Self-worth, identity and shared history are lost and you feel intense emotional pain. Does this sound familar?

Estrangement often brings grief, guilt, confusion and isolation. Do you feel pressure to forgive or reconcile before you understand fully what that means and before you’re spiritually and emotionally ready?  I understand and felt similarly.

My personal experience with estrangement coupled with professional life coach training offers an opportunity for you to create space to feel grief, discover clarity around responsibility, establish healthy boundaries and gain a renewed sense of purpose. You want to heal so that you can live grounded, regardless of whether the relationship changes.

Reconciliation Cannot be Forced

Coaching focuses on your wholeness – your heart, your faith, your boundaries and your peace rather than an attempt to manage someone else. Because as hard as you try to control someone else, it just doesn’t work. Together, we’ll focus on what you can control and that is you and your emotions, decisions and relationship with God. 

Who This Work is For

Women navigating complex family distance and estrangement who are ready to work on creating their own faith based growth and peace. Who are tired of feeling stuck and unable to move forward.

My approach is a WHOLENESS Path – a gentle Christ-centered 7-session coaching journey focused on healing your emotional pain. Discover your true identity in Jesus. Explore what forgiveness looks and feels like. Set boundaries. Find clarity and discover lasting peace. Isn’t that what you are seeking? That’s what I desperately wanted.

I tried other strategies – self-help, books, counseling and more and although some of it helped, I was lacking internal peace. Until I discovered a fundamental principle that changed my life. And my passion is helping you find it too.

What Coaching Looks Like

Coaching with me is a one-on-one private session with guided reflection and compassionate support.

What You Can Expect

Clients express that they experience new perspectives, clearer boundaries, how to finally forgive and let go, renewed faith and freedom to live again. Some have found their passion and purpose once they were able to let go of the bitterness and resentment that estrangement concealed.


You Don't Have to Walk This Estrangement Alone!

Deep inside where no one can see, is a heart that is broken. Filled with disappointment, grief, guilt and shame, you often feel alone with your feelings. You feel guilty that you have these feelings. You wonder where God is in the estrangement and feel confused as you struggle with your emotions.

That’s how I felt. You too? For several years I was estranged from my kids and most of my family. It was the most painful time in my life. I felt that if they rejected me, God probably did as well. And I found just the opposite. The pain is where God met me, opened his arms and helped me navigate estrangement while helping me grow closer to him. Eventually, reconciliation and restoration occurred. And I can help you when you are ready to heal, confront guilt & shame, reclaim your true identity and find the peace you long for.

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“Estrangement means sometimes struggling in uncomfortable places and that can heighten the pain. I appreciate the care, insight and encouragement you provide. Your story, website and podcast truly speak to the broken. I needed to tell my story and be heard. Thank you for being part of my healing of broken relationships.”
Sherry D