Helping women navigate estrangement, grief and fractured relationships.
Find peace and purpose again even if your estranged relationship never changes.
I experienced estrangement, found peace in God and eventually reconciled to healthy relationships.
Even if Your Loved One Never Changes, Healing is Possible.
Deep inside where no one can see, is a heart that is broken. Whether it is a child, grandkids or a son or daughter-in-law, disappointment turns into anger and resentment. Filled with disappointment, grief, guilt and shame, you often feel alone with your feelings. Prayers have gone unanswered. You wonder where God is in the estrangement and feel confused as you struggle with your emotions. You wonder who you are without your role as a mom.
That’s how estrangement felt to me. You too?
The Crisis of Identity
Estrangement upends your role with multiple relationships and you wonder how you’ll manage.
- Who am I without my role as a Mom?
- When grandchildren disappear from my life.
- Can I feel normal again?
- Will I ever stop obsessing about this estrangement?
- How can I enjoy a meaningful life if reconciliation doesn’t happen?
Good news! We will build your new normal apart from your roles that have disappeared. You can feel normal, even joyful and peaceful. I’ll show you when to reach out and when to stop without feeling guilty.
What To Do When You’ve Trusted God for Years and Nothing Changes.
It feels so heavy. It’s been months or years and still nothing. You’ve prayed not only for your child but their spouse and your grandkids yet estrangement remains. Do you keep trusting? Should you reach out anymore? Has God forgotten you? Does He care?
Birthdays, holidays and memories bring a flood of emotions that create nothing but pain. God does care. He sees. He has not rejected you and I’ll help you find peace in the waiting and discover strategies to help you grow personally as you wait. You want a close relationship with God but He wants it even more. You can discover joy and peace – even amid estrangement.
Reconciliation Cannot be Forced – Learn How To Build a Meaningful Life While the Estrangement Continues.
You want reconciliation. So did I. Years passed without contact. Coaching and support with me focuses on your wholeness – your heart, your faith, your boundaries and your peace rather than an attempt to manage someone else. Because as hard as you try to control someone else, it just doesn’t work. No matter how many times you apologize or reach out, you can’t force them to accept and reconcile. When you discover that you can only control your emotions, decisions and healthy relationships including God, life will change for the better. Because you’ll be building a meaningful life beyond estranged relationships.
Here’s How to Start the Process
Estrangement can feel so overwhelming. Where do you start? How do you navigate this? So many emotions and struggles. Here are 3 things you can do now to find some relief to manage the emotional pain.
First, listen to these 3 short but powerful podcasts.
- How To Silence The Inner Critic – This will help you stop the shame, blame and negative self-talk.
- The #1 Obstacle to Reconciling Relationships – Learn what 5-letter word keeps you stuck and find strategies to help you let go and find peace.
- Understanding Why You’re Struggling to Forgive – You aren’t even sure you want to forgive, but feel you want to. Or, you’ve forgiven but it doesn’t feel like it. Learn why and what to do about it.
Second, subscribe to Estrangement, Turning Pain into Peace – a podcast on your favorite platform where you’ll hear weekly podcasts designed to speak directly into your pain.
Third, download your free copy “4 Steps to Discover Lasting Peace Amid Estrangement” – Here you’ll find an interactive guide to help you process your emotional pain and find solutions for peace.
Lastly, Consider What Coaching Looks Like
Coaching with me is a one-on-one private session with compassionate support. It is not therapy. I am not a Licensed Therapist. My strength is empathy, faith, lived wisdom and a steady voice to partner with you as you process estrangement.
Coaching is not therapy. My approach is a biblical 7-session 1:1 personalized relationship where you'll develop a clear path to move you forward to the peace you seek.
