Helping women navigate estrangement, grief and fractured relationships.
Find peace, hope & healing - even amid estrangement through a compassionate path of one who's been there.
Your heart is broken. Confusion, anger and resentment along with "why" long for answers. I can help.
This free 4 steps booklet originated from my personal journey of estrangement and contains lessons that helped me survive the hardest days. It’s the story I wish someone had shared with me when my estrangement began.
Estrangement hurts. Possibly more than any physical ailment. It may be with an adult child or next generation relationship such as daughter or son-in-law and may extend to your grandkids.
Separation severs ties to your roots. Your roles are upended.
- Mother
- Mother-in-law
- Grandmother
- Daughter
- Sister
You never saw it coming. Or you made decisions that created the estrangement. Self-worth, identity and shared history are lost and you feel intense emotional pain. Does this sound familiar?
Estrangement often brings grief, guilt, shame, confusion and isolation. You feel distant even from God. You’re confused about what went wrong and ashamed for how deeply this hurts. You’re questioning why God isn’t answering your prayers and unsure of how to move forward without resentment and bitterness. Download the 4 Steps to Lasting Peace to begin finding the answers and peace you seek.
I understand as I’ve walked through estrangement with my own kids and family and felt all of these things. And I’ve learned strategies and principles to help you. My personal experience with estrangement coupled with certified life coach training and a strong faith is the passion to help women going through similar experiences. I offer a gentle, compassionate presence and a structured approach to help you find the clarity, peace and hope you seek.
Reconciliation Cannot be Forced
Coaching and support with me focuses on your wholeness – your heart, your faith, your boundaries and your peace rather than an attempt to manage someone else. Because as hard as you try to control someone else, it just doesn’t work. Together, we’ll focus on what you can control and that is you and your emotions, decisions and relationship with God.
Who This Work is For
It’s not about fixing family relationships or forcing reconciliation. it’s about helping you:
- Release what was never yours to carry.
- Find steadiness and peace with God in the midst of uncertainty.
- Reclaim peace even if the relationship isn’t reconciled.
I tried other strategies – self-help, books, counseling and more and although some of it helped, I was lacking internal peace. Until I discovered a fundamental principle in estrangement that changed my life. I finally conquered guilt & shame, learned how to handle the grief, anger & resentment and found lasting peace. And my passion is helping you find it too.
What Coaching Looks Like
Coaching with me is a one-on-one private session with guided reflection and compassionate support. It is not therapy. I am not a Licensed Therapist. My strength is empathy, faith, lived wisdom and a steady voice to partner with you as you process estrangement.
You Don't Have to Walk This Estrangement Alone!
Deep inside where no one can see, is a heart that is broken. Filled with disappointment, grief, guilt and shame, you often feel alone with your feelings. You feel guilty that you have these feelings. You wonder where God is in the estrangement and feel confused as you struggle with your emotions.
That’s how I felt. You too? For several years I was estranged from my kids and most of my family. I struggled with guilt & shame. It was the most painful time in my life. I felt that if they rejected me, God probably did as well. And I found just the opposite. The pain is where God met me, opened his arms and helped me navigate estrangement while helping me grow closer to him. Eventually, reconciliation and restoration occurred. And I can help you when you are ready to heal, confront guilt & shame, reclaim your true identity and find the peace you long for.
Take the first step by getting your free e-book to find 4 steps to lasting peace. You'll discover a mind shift change that is necessary. And how to confront guilt, shame and explore forgiveness. The link is below - grab your free copy and be on your way to finding peace.
