Freedom is the buzz word this week as we approach Independence Day in America. Plans are being made for parades, BBQ’s, fireworks, and family gatherings. It can conjure up great memories such as those I had as a kid where we spent the holiday on the lake.
Watermelons are cooled in the lake’s edge. Boats revving up for the skiing group. Hamburgers and hot dogs are grilled. And fireworks are watched from the middle of the lake sitting in the boat.
Therefore freedom is a beautiful thing. Unless you feel imprisoned by estranged relationships. And then holiday times with strained family can be stressful. Is it possible to have freedom in estrangement? Even amid continued difficult relationships.
It is, and the key is in the freedom found in a relationship with Jesus.
Freedom in Christ
Consider what scripture has to say about your relationship with God.
- You are the daughter of the king.
- He created you for a purpose and knows the plans he has for you.
- He has set you free and you are free indeed.
Do you resonate with any of those? When you are amid strained and difficult family relationships, it can be hard to focus on who you are in Christ.
Scripture says you are his workmanship. God promises to never abandon you. He has sent his Holy Spirit to live in you. He is merciful and forgiving and pursues a relationship with you.
In other words, my friend, it’s the state of mind where God does his best work.
When you place your faith in Christ’s work on the cross for you, you are his. He’s got you no matter what you face. He loves you more than anyone ever could.
That alone is worth celebrating. Why not take a few minutes to look up some scriptures on who God says you are and focus on those gifts he’s given you. He’s provided freedom for you already. It’s yours to embrace.
Freedom in Estrangement
How is it even possible to experience freedom in estrangement? If you’re like me, you feel isolated from that person or people. You feel judged. The estranged relationship creates stress and unwanted feelings.
The key to experiencing freedom in estrangement is to focus on the freedom you have in Christ. Don’t dwell on estrangement. Remember, it takes two to create distance so let go of the blame game.
Stop thinking about what could’ve been different. Resist the urge to reach out again and again just to be met with more rejection. In three words – let it go.
Learn to shift your mindset. Think about the things you think about. What thoughts permeate your mind today? If they are negative and condemning, that’s not from God.
Moreover, recognize the enemy’s tactics and resist. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
You are a unique child of God. Loved wholly and accepted by the Creator of the Universe. Bask in that love and knowledge.
Celebrating Freedom
Will you join me this week to celebrate your freedom?
Just think of the freedoms you have.
- Freedom to choose religion
- Freedom of speech
- Freedom to choose your friends
- Freedom to choose your career
- Freedom to choose your mate
At least for now, we still possess many freedoms in this country. Take some time to reflect on those and thank God for them.
Celebrate the freedom you have in Christ and what he’s done for you.
Celebrate the ability to choose freedom even amid estrangement.
Wishing you a happy and healthy Independence Day and hoping you will choose to recognize and celebrate freedom- both in America and in your estrangement.