"To most my life looked like picture perfect. My business was successful. I was a leader in the community and had earned trust and respect. I was even active in Church. I had a strong healthy marriage. Everything outside looked good. But family estrangement had taken its toll on my emotional health and was starting to affect me physically. Although others saw me as a strong healthy vibrant and successful woman, I fought the pain of rejection and struggled with self-confidence. I avoided talking about family relationships because I was embarrassed and frankly, it was a topic that could reduce me to tears quickly. I was ready to let this go but I was stuck. Using the 4-part system Becky offers, I was able to find forgiveness, acceptance and rebuild confidence in myself and in God. The power I gave the estrangement was disarmed and I had a profound peace that helped me establish healthy boundaries for reconciliation and healthy relationships."